This is a fantastic post by an on-line acquaintance. Well worth the time to read and ponder.
To Spank Or Not To Spank … Is Not The Question
And this is a great follow-up article.
Eternal brothers, Confessing & Forgiving
This, these two posts by Emeth Hesed, sum up what I've been trying to get through my head for the past 4 years. This is the Gospel applied to our children.